rob showed up unexpectedly this afternoon. actually, i sort of expected him to come over today, but since he didn't call or anything before he came over, it was still like a surprise. we messed with some stuff at my house and then went to eat dinner. we also went by the hardware store and picked up some stuff we're gonna need to get me moved back in to my house. he's been working all crazy hours lately. next weekend he's going to help his current roommate (red) move out, so possibly the weekend after we can start getting my place in shape. most of my stuff is already over there, but for example - my stove is still in the living room. when the guys came to install the tile in my kitchen, they moved it out there and it's been there since. there's other crap like that still left to do - crap that i'm going to need help with. the other minor stuff is pretty much done, although i do still need to clean the bathroom.

rob & i told my father about the baby today. his response? "well, you oughta get married first and then do that. that's what most people do." in response, i just said something dumb like "well, we're not most people." he said a couple of other things, but they were generally positive. he said something about worrying that i'd have trouble carrying the baby (because of my stupid non-healthy back) and he did say he was happy for us. i guess we'll just have to give it time to sink in and then see how he acts from there. i just knew he was going to make some marriage comment, so i was expecting that and of course it could have been worse. i have a feeling that rob & i will probably end up getting married, but that's our choice to make and if we do it, we'll do it when we're ready. i'm certainly not going to get married just so that my father isn't uptight. he'd just find something else to be uptight about anyway.

i said something to my mom about how i hope he doesn't come back tomorrow (or whenever) and say something nasty to me. she said "well, if he does, just tell him to stick it where the sun don't shine." heh.

since i was out with rob, my mom taped the six feet under season finale for me. i just watched it before i sat down to write. argh! didn't this show just come back on in march?! the season is just too damn short. it was a good episode, but i was all *sob*sob*sob*ing. they can't kill nate. right? they just can't. and where did brenda think she was going?! i sure hope that claire gets accepted to lac arts so that she doesn't end up at east valley with stupid parker. i feel pretty sure that she will be accepted, though. why am i rambling on about this? i bet none of you watch the show anyway, and will instead just have no idea what the hell i'm on about.

i also watched queer as folk, and it was just silly, as always. last season this show seemed like a drama and this season it's just more like a soft-core porn soap opera. as long as it makes me laugh, though, it's all good. it also can't help that i have a massive crush on emmett, even though he's a total queen. most straight women seem to be all into brian, but i'm just all - brian? brian who? where's emmett?! sad, i know. oh well, my mom is all about justin, so she's even weirder than me.